We recently watched The Sound of Music with our kids, and, dear readers, I’d like to share our observations:
1. The songs, once they got into our head, seem to have permanently settled there, but mostly in a good way. Even if Do Re Me gets a little annoying, I’m always able to chase it away with A Few of My Favorite Things;
2. Loved the film, but it’s strange, is it not, to march to the altar to a song that declares the bride “a problem”?
3. Loved the film, especially because it featured a lot of kids and the central story was that of a man and a woman meeting, falling in love and getting married, and their lives are better for that. So quaint. Contemporary Disney can’t get around princesses who are not ready, get entangled in relationships with trust fund babies or, worse yet, so obviously represent the frigid dead end of feminism.
4. Watching the movie I found it necessary to explain to my children, 7 and 5, about the Nazis. I don’t think there was ever a time in my life when I had to be explained such a thing. I just knew. VE Day, or, in Russian parlance, Victory Day, was a major national holiday, every family was touched by the War and the media was saturated with War-related materials.
My husband, born and raised in San Fernando Valley, doesn’t remember being explained about Nazis either. He does remember playing WW2 with his brother, though. I’m quite certain I played the War a few times as well, even though I was a girly girl — because it was happening on the playground. I’ve never seen American kids today playing anything violent with a reference to historical fact.
When we talked about Nazis being “the bad guys” my 7-year-old daughter promptly found an analogy: “Or, like they litter”. Years ago I posted about a Soviet science fiction story where villains litter. We can find faults with the Soviet story, but it’s my children who are living the life so overprotected, that they are unable to even begin to articulate the nature of evil. (We shelter them from good, for a good measure, too, see number 3).
I recall, years ago, reading an article in local Jewish paper about teaching kids about the Holocaust. It recommended waiting until they were 8 to explain that something horrible happened to Jews in Europe. Perhaps I’ve forgotten some of the detail. Maybe the conversation didn’t have to be postponed until 8, maybe the experts thought that parents need to wait until 5, but somehow I suspect a generation ago the issue was handled differently.
Granted, I didn’t know about the Holocaust until I was a teenager when my parents taught me about it. I thought Nazis invaded our country and burnt villages, and my family, having no problem with this narrative, simply added on to it later. Soviets weren’t big on Jewish issues, albeit there is the frequently played song about Buchenwald performed by Muslim Magomaev, but its subtext was by no means obvious:
My daughter shared her excitement about The Sound of Music with a girlfriend her age. She told her not to worry, the movie is not that scary, although it has Nazis in it. “So you get to learn abut the nuns?” inquired her half-Israeli friend. Each year, Israel commemorated Holocaust remembrance day.
5. DH further researched 60’s musicals and found the following review of My Fair Lady:
No one younger than 50 will remember My Fair Lady. When it came out on stage and in movies it was wonderful. But now it just seemed dated. Radical lesbians will hate the thing.
But we are only interested in what gay men have to say about it!
6. Were The Sound of Music a Soviet film, Captain Von Trapp would be joining the Austrian partisans. Or at least the Italian ones. And it would be no family fare. Soviet and Russian WW2 films do not require redemption, are quite excellent, but very very difficult to watch.